Have you noticed how much we forget as time passes? We allow too much time to pass before talking to a friend. Someone makes us a promise, but forgets to keep it. Or my original intent to blog every two weeks, which fell by the wayside when things got busy.
We didn’t intend to forget. It just happened.
We’ve all been treated that way. And if we’re
honest, we’d admit we’ve treated others that way, too. And if being forgotten
touches a deep area in our lives, it can hurt—a lot.
Or sometimes it’s not a broken promise. Sometimes
life just isn’t fair. How often do we think of someone and say, “He is one of
the kindest, most faithful people I know. If anyone deserves good things in
their life, it’s him. So why is he the first to be downsized or the last to be
picked?”
That’s when God’s faithfulness shines through for
me. One thing that fascinates me about God is that He notices us. When no one
else sees us, He does.
Two Bible verses touch me every time I read them:
“Then the LORD took note of Sarah as He had
said, and the LORD did for Sarah as He had promised” (Genesis 21:1 NASB).
“Then God remembered Rachel, and God gave
heed to her and opened her womb” (Genesis 30:22 NASB).
I never look those verses up just to read them. I
tend to forget about them until I’m reading the chapter. For anyone not
familiar with the Bible, Sarah and Rachel each had been married for many years.
Each had watched others discover the joy of giving birth and raising children.
But Sarah and Rachel were both barren.
Until God remembered them.
Actually, God never forgets. He always notices us,
always remembers us. According to Isaiah 49:16, God inscribed His kids’
pictures on the palms of His hands. (Yep, God has tattoos!)
God just has broader timing than we do. And that
was the case with Sarah and Rachel. As you read about them, you can see their
heartache. They probably reached points in their lives when they doubted they
would ever see their dreams of motherhood fulfilled. But eventually, their
barrenness ended. They became pregnant.
You might be thinking it’s odd for a guy to relate
to barren women. But I relate to delays in their dreams—that feeling of wanting
to be farther along your personal path than you are. In other words, you hold a
dream on the inside, but it hasn’t yet been born.
Some of you reading this probably feel the same
way right now.
Barrenness feels empty. Barrenness feels empty.
Barrenness often means holding a lot of heartache inside, because it doesn’t
look like people around you would understand—either because their life’s path
looks stellar, or because they don’t care enough to dream in the first place.
But for you, there’s no escape. There’s a
God-given sense inside you that He has a plan for your life, a destiny. So you
can’t turn your back on it. But that means going through barren seasons (or
years!) along the way.
The barrenness has an end point, though.
“’Shout for
joy, O barren one, you who have borne no child…for the sons of the desolate one
will be more numerous than the sons of the married woman,’ says the LORD. ‘Enlarge
the place of your tent…lengthen your cords and strengthen your pegs. For you
will spread abroad to the right and to the left’” (Isaiah 54:1-3 NASB).
I soaked in that passage countless times back when
I did computer programming. I spent a year reading that passage, the story of Joseph
in Genesis 37-47, and Hebrews 11. I read them almost exclusively for about a
year, over and over and over again, building up faith and encouragement from
them. And to this day, I still cling to those verses because dreams always seem
to have a next phase.
You might feel barren, but God hasn’t forgotten
you. God takes notice.
And sometimes, we don’t have the ability to make
our own dreams come true—hence the long waits—but God will put people in your
life. We can help make their dreams come true while we’re waiting for ours. So
if we’re waiting, it’s a great time to sow seed into the dreams of someone
else—to let them know they’re not
forgotten.
The best things in life, those with true
substance, seem to involve the hardest-fought battles and the longest waits.
But keep pressing on with those genuine heart desires until God brings them to
pass.
Never give up!
Today’s playlist:
21 by Adele
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